Blind to the Blessing (Part 1): Identifying the Blinders That Block God’s Best

In this honest and vulnerable episode of Crazy Unbelievable Faith, Brian and Kersha tackle a universal struggle: being "blind to the blessing." They kick off Part 1 of this new series by identifying the "blinders" that keep us from seeing what God is doing right in front of us. This isn't just about feeling stuck; it's a deep dive into the practical ways we miss opportunities because we're too busy, distracted, or focused on what others have. Brian and Kersha use their own lives as a "case study," sharing personal stories about distractions, the difference between "busyness" and "being busy," and the trap of comparison in the age of social media. From the challenge of "God getting the leftovers" to the myth of the "overnight success," this episode is a blueprint for self-reflection. It’s a must-listen for anyone feeling like they're spinning their wheels, struggling with comparison, or just feeling "off" in their walk with God. This is a powerful reminder to take off the blinders and refocus on the path God has for you.

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🔥 What You’ll Learn:

• The "Leftovers" Trap: Learn why getting out of your routine (like devotionals or the gym) leads to God getting the "leftovers" instead of the "first fruits."

• Busyness vs. Being Busy: Understand the critical difference between "spinning your wheels" (busyness) and productive, forward-moving work (being busy).

• The "Physically Present" Problem: How to identify if you are "physically around but mentally nowhere close," especially when working from home or managing family life.

• The Comparison Blinder: Unpack the dangers of comparison fueled by social media (LinkedIn resumes, new cars, successful kids) and how to retrain your brain.

• Effort vs. Reward Myth: Debunk the idea that a set amount of effort always equals a set amount of reward, and why we must avoid this "instant gratification" mindset.

• The "10,000 Hours" Reality: Why the "overnight success" is a myth and how it blinds us to the long-term work God requires.

• Age, Wisdom, and Maturity: Discover why you can "grow old and never mature" and how wisdom isn't automatically tied to age.

💬 Memorable Quotes:

• Kersha: "You can grow old and never mature. You can be wise and young, and you can be old, wise and mature all at the same time."

• Brian (quoting a-saying): "People are too busy knocking opportunity that they don't hear opportunity knock."

• Brian: "You're physically around. But mentally nowhere close to where I'm at."

• Kersha: (Defining busyness) "Busyness is doing things that keep you spinning your wheels. It's not growth, it's not visionary, it's not moving the bus forward."

• Kersha: (On comparison) "This is definitely an area in which I had to retrain my brain on how to be happy for other people and still content with me."

• Brian (quoting a saying): "You know that saying people are expecting results for the work they haven't done."

• Brian: "If we walk through life with that mindset [who do you know that they need to know], things would look differently."

🛑 Reflect + Apply: Questions to Ask Yourself

• When you feel "off," what is the first routine (like your quiet time) that gets cut? How can you protect it?

• Think about your schedule this week. Where are you just "busy" (spinning your wheels) and where are you "being busy" (productive)?

• In what areas of your life are you "physically present but mentally nowhere close"—with family, at work, or with God?

• When you scroll social media, which accounts or people trigger the "comparison" blinder for you? How can you "retrain your brain" in those moments?

• Are you expecting an "overnight success" in your career, faith, or family? Are you willing to put in the "10,000 hours" God is asking for?

• In what area of your life are you expecting 100 units of reward for 10 hours of effort? How can you shift your focus to "delayed gratification" and God's timing?

📖 Biblical Principles Focus:

This episode is a practical application of key biblical principles, including:

• Principle of Priority (Matthew 6:33): The discussion of giving God "leftovers" instead of "first fruits" points to the mandate to "seek first the kingdom of God."

• Principle of Stewardship (Matthew 25:14-30): The "effort vs. reward" and "10,000 hours" conversation relates to the Parable of the Talents and being faithful with what God has given you.

• Principle of Contentment (Philippians 4:11-13): The deep dive into "comparison" is a practical application of learning to be content in all circumstances, knowing our strength comes from Christ.

• Principle of Wisdom (Proverbs 4:7): The conversation on "age vs. wisdom" highlights the biblical call to "get wisdom" above all else, which is a heart posture, not just a number.

🙌 Join the Movement

If you have ever felt stuck in a rut, battled the green-eyed monster of comparison, or felt like you're just "spinning your wheels," this episode is for you. Brian and Kersha’s breakdown is a practical and honest challenge to identify the blinders in your own life. This is a call to stop, reflect, and ask God what blessings you might be missing. Your journey of faith is about clearing your vision to see the specific path God has for you.

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